Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Some Thoughts On Worry
But I don't really want to focus on Money, although that is a big issue. But the text comes from Luke 12:22-34. Go ahead and read that. There's a lot in this, more then meets the eye on a quick little read through.
Jesus is really trying to bring up this idea: In order to solve worries about 'money' (Or all things, really), we must TRUST in the God who cares for us and seek His Kingdom above our own needs. Which is pretty much a statement of the first point:
I. To Solve Our Worries, We Must Trust In The God Who Cares For Us.
I shall try not to repeat a sentence like that again. Anyway, especially right NOW; it is SO easy to be anxious and get really worried and frustrated in life. Our country's government for sure isn't making it any easier. Neither are the world's core values. Right now, that's what I'm especially worried about: I'm sixteen, growing out of highschool and into college where it's going to be difficult to pay for. Luckily, I think I may have found something that solves that problem, but it's still going to take work for it...but just a few weeks ago, I really didn't. College isn't cheap. So you have to get a job and work tirelessly to pay for it.
To make things even more difficult, it's a HARD job to GET a job. I know a few people right now that are a couple years older then me that are trying to find jobs and can't. They've gone EVERYWHERE, practically. When you look at the issues of this country's economy and cultural principles, it's really easy to turn to pessimism. I know I easily do. But what does that REALLY say about us when we're getting worried over things? We're not trusting in our God to help us get what we need...and He even takes care of the 'ravens' (ravens literally, crows, carrion birds, you get the scene). Are you of more value then birds, Christian? I would think so...so don't worry, God has it all in control.
But you have to listen to what Jesus is saying: He's not saying sit back and relax and don't take any concern at all. We MUST work. Paul says it well in 2 Thessalonians 3:10: "For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat."
So we do need to work and be concerned about things. But worry and concerned are two very different things. Another point that Jesus makes is that we shouldn't worry because...think about it...does worrying do anything? No, it doesn't. In worrying, you just sit and whine. (Mostly, at least). Solomon says it this way in Proverbs 14:23: "All hard work brings profit, but mere talk only brings poverty". You COULD technically entitle 'worry' as mere talk.
Worry really tries to pull our faith in God away from us. It takes the fact that God is in control away and tries to say that we are in control. But what 'worry' fails to recognize is that we are not in complete control...which is simply not the case. The point is: By worrying, you'll never change anything. Worrying can never change the status quo. But, this can: Trust in God that He has it taken care of, and in realizing that fact you'll take action.
I find it also interesting that Jesus compares us with the 'flowers of the field' in verse 27. That's a point of clothing, obviously. I'm wondering if there are any more possible ways to interpret that and the next couple verses. Any thoughts?
Truly, all we need is our basic needs. And God knows that we have basic needs. If we trust Him with a hard work ethic, He will give us those needs. He will. Sometimes there just needs to be a little waiting...maybe a long wait. But the point is that He has it all in control, and everything happens for a reason.
At the heart of worry is a doubt in who God is. Worry mimics the world...and the world worries because it believes it's in control, and truly knows not what to do to make a change in things to get situations better. That's why everything ultimately fails when there's no acknowledgement of God. It's what happened to the Roman Empire, what happened to the British Empire, and every other empire in the history of the world that fell. Sad as it is, that's where America is headed. Truly, the only way for America to start growing again is a national recognition of man's sinful nature, as we had when we were just a beginning nation.
II. To Solve Our Worries, We Must Seek God's Kingdom Above Our Own Needs.
1. There is a command here: Seek God's kingdom. It's mainly done in prayer, but as well as charity in different areas to further His Kingdom. That's all we must seek: God's Kingdom proclaimed and manifested around the entire globe.
2. Assurance: The Father will provide for all our needs if we earnestly seek His Kingdom.
3. Application: Give generously and we will have lasting treasure in Heaven. Really, that's what it's all about here. The two main things in life are either Materials...which decays and dies over time, or God's Kingdom, which never falls apart, despite what the World thinks. Where we put our treasures into, that's where our hearts follow. If we put treasure into materials and Earthly 'gains', we will fade. If we place our treasure in Heaven, God's Kingdom...there our heart will be also, and we will live.
Now you have to know what I'm saying here: I'm not saying that you can't 'enjoy' 'comforts' nowadays. The point is that you need to be earnestly seeking God's Kingdom. When you seek His Kingdom on a daily and hourly, and momently basis...worry will fade for you. Oh how I long to have that feeling. Jesus bids us to focus not on this life, but the next. Shall we try to focus more on the Next life in Eternity? I agree with Jesus, but we're all going to need His help to do so. Mind asking Him to join with us and help us grow? Indeed. Any thoughts?
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Life...What Is Defined As Having A 'Life'?
I really love the paradox in that: Though he die, yet he shall live. We must die to ourselves, and live in Christ to live. It's a very interesting thing to think about indeed.
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Leadership...What Is True Leadership?
That's a good question. What on earth IS 'True Leadership'? Well, I'm going to try to answer that question in a series of thoughts and facts. I will bring in what I have learned from life, Scripture, and what a few of my friends have to say about that.
But why did I have a thought on 'Leadership' in the first place? Well, I'll try to answer that question as well. I may have iterated before on the fact that I'm in a swordfighting organization (WOTS [Way Of The Sword], which is Kendo basically). Anyway, WOTS stretches all over FL and grabs into the southern lands of Georgia in clans having different areas. I am in one of the better clans. But it truly depends what you mean by 'better'. Are we the best fighters? Eh...probably far from it. But the thing is, we've had great leadership, we've always fought on the basics and the actual techniques. We have respect for each other, others, and the thing we do. The other clans? They simply don't. At all. And it reminded me of the 'leadership' exhibited at the event today.
If a 'leader' needs to swear and curse at his 'subordinates' to get them to do stuff...uh...doesn't that say something? Anyway, back to the point, the former 'leaders' of my clan have stepped down. In their places they elected me and my friend Cary as the new 'leaders'. Unfortunately Cary is the actual 'leader'...but that's fine by me. Why? Because he is a true leader, and I'm really interested in seeing where he goes in life. Gah, I need to stop babbling on in nonsense, and get back to the point.
What does the Scripture say about 'Leadership'?
First off, Hosea 11:4 has this to say: "I led them with cords of kindness, with the bands of love,and I became to them as one who eases the yoke on their jaws, and I bent down to them and fed them." Another translation says (human) kindness. Basically, common human decency: What you want done for you, do for others. A leader takes this command in the Bible to heart. He eases the yoke on his 'subordinates'. He doesn't let them become 'sit-back-and-do-nothing' people though...he does everything in his power to help them get what they're supposed to done. Sound familiar? Yeah, it oughta. Jesus did just that when He took Flesh upon Himself, lived perfectly and died the most painful way for us. So hey, what do ya know? Yup, Jesus, (like being such a good model for us to be like in many different ways) is the model for Leadership. And that doesn't come as a surprise, does it?
Nelson Mandella had this to say about Leadership: "It is better to lead from behind and to put others in front, especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger. Then people will appreciate your leadership.".
At a second's glance, the first thing Mandella said seems a little false. But he's not saying to lead from behind people during war. What he's really getting at is to put others before your own desires. A leader looks at what his people need (not what they want), but what they need, (such as rights to things and such) and then does everything in his power to advance that.
Collin Powel, one of our most beloved war Generals, had this to say: "Leadership is solving problems. The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help or concluded you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership."
I really love what this guy is saying here. Leadership deals with solving problems. If your people can't come to you with pleas and problems...there's something wrong. Either they don't trust your sense of judgment and wisdom to solve the problem, or they don't care, then you have a failure of Leadership. Being a leader means you care about your people, and have wisdom as about to go solving the issues.
Bringing my friend Cary back into the picture, he has a few things to say on the matter, and they're right on.
"You have to lead by example." He goes on to say, "You must be the example of what you want to see in them. If you're not displaying what you want, then how will they know what to do?"
An excellent question, if you ask me. He also had another great thing to say, but I can't remember what that is now.
So now, what are some of MY thoughts on the topic of Leadership?
Well, I'd definitely have to say some of the stuff that some of the guys up there^ have said. But I wanna add a few things. To be a leader, you must be humble and listen to those who maybe don't understand your reasoning in solving a problem. If a leader is truly in the wrong, he must have a low enough ego to realize he's wrong and correct it. A leader must be gentle and caring with his people, as God is with us. He needs to be able to clearly lay out what his aims and goals are, and then get them done in an efficient way. There's soooo much more I could say on this, but I am exhausted and hurting. But I want to know: What are some of your thoughts on who a Leader is? I'd really love to know if I'm missing something.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
A Poem and A Thought
Dear Little Sister
This little sister in my lap,
Her head on my chest,
Silently taking a nap,
This feeling is the best.
My arms wrapped around her,
My chin on her hair,
Oh I really love her,
She’s forever in my care.
I fear for whoever comes near,
With an evil glint in their eye,
They’ll have to stay in E.R. for a year,
He’ll be hurt just enough to not die.
I do wonder about this:
Does she return my love?
I’d protect you from anything little sis,
You’re as beautiful as a dove.
I adore you more than you know,
You can’t fathom how much I love you,
I cannot at all say ‘no’.
I hope you love me too.
Your sweet little face,
Is hard to resist,
Your loving embrace,
Clears all the mist.
You always rest on me,
You feel safe from all fears,
Sleeping on me,
You slumber peacefully.
I miss you dearly,
Do you miss me?
You make me sing to you,
Not minding my horrible off-key voice,
But you love it too,
It is your choice.
I feel heart-broken when I don’t see you,
Do you feel the same way?
When I hear you joy fills me anew,
I’d love to see you more than every day.
I love you sweet girl,
I miss you dearly,
In my life you are a pearl,
I’d die if I see you only yearly.
This world is very, VERY cruel when it comes to girls, growth, and life. It's values teach girls to act wrongly, and wear next to nothing. They go to desperate measures to keep a guy's attraction, not realizing that she's only attracting him to her body, not the real her. When that comes about and continues, it's nothing but 'hell' for the girl when her 'boy' becomes abusive. She is very precious and special. If you find when you wear practically nothing, and you get guys' attention...that's not attention that you want, because it will only be your destruction. If you cover your body properly, the guy you attract and falls for you will take care of you, and have only your very best in mind, not what he can get out of it.
Also, girls seem to feel like they need to cover up their face with stuff that's made from the guts of sharks and other fish...destroying the natural beauty that God designed them with. Girls must be protected and cherished, not lusted for. The more you can help your guy keep respect of you, the better off it will be for you.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Friendship: The Best Supporter Or The 'Backstabbing Liar'?
I've been thinking of the concept of 'Friendship' for a couple weeks now, as I've watched friendships fall apart from several different levels. Mainly, I've been thinking my own thoughts, but it's always good to bring in a little bit of Scripture. Since it's God's words to us of Divine Authority, it must be the key to solving most (if not all) problems.
First off, put yourself into a place. Someone who has been a really good friend, helpful in times of trial seems to turn on you. Is he or she really turning on you? Or is it just a humanly mistake? (we all, as humans, have tendencies to make 'humanly errors' or mistakes). We need to truly be able to see who our friends are. And although a few of them may really be very wise and knowledgeable, we do need to give them a little bit of grace when we feel like they hurt us. There, usually, is always an explanation for things. Note: Not excuses, but explanations.
I am in a good 'Friendship Circle', and I know that because most of my friends' are really after God's own heart. They may not necessarily speak a lot about it, but even in the more dark, brooding of my friends there's yet still a passion for knowledge and truth. I suppose you could say I live by an old quote from C.S. Lewis: "The next best thing to being wise oneself is to live in a circle of those who are."
I may add that if you don't have a circle of wise Christian friends, it's better to be alone in your quest for truth then in the company of those who seek ill-gotten things. This idea of mine is backed up by Proverbs 13:20: "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm". Now ultimately, no one is really 'wise'. You know, unless if they are'wise' but you can generally tell. In the same way, not everyone is really foolish, and you can generally tell if someone is. Of course, in my understanding, it's easier to tell a true fool then to say if someone is really 'wise' or not. I think I'm straying off-topic a little.
Let me really share what a 'true friend' (even despite our sinful natures) really is. And I've had a few of them in my life already, and I will have more along the road of my life. A friend truly loves his or her friend. And I'm not talking about the love between one man and one woman here, I'm meaning in sibling affection (that doesn't have to be through 'blood family') and why is that? Because under Jesus' sacrifice for us, we're all daughters and sons of the Heavenly Father...so generally we are siblings in that respect anyway. When a friend either makes a couple really big mistakes, or is on the path to insanity (whatever that may be, it comes differently to different people) being a true friend means not letting them keep on this path that will eventually lead to death or Hell, no matter what the friend in trouble says or thinks he has it right. But it shouldn't be done in judgment, it should be done in love. As 'true friends' we need to appeal and plea for this friend of ours to listen. They need to know they're cared for, above all else. Besides that, we have to be strong in our prayer to God to bring them back to Him, and we earnestly need to tell the Devil, "No. You can't have my friend. So stop trying."...and we need to pray that God will get him to back off as well. The Bible usually says that friends oughta act to one another how Jesus acted towards us.
It really comes from John 15: 12- 15, so read that if you will. Jesus is speaking right here. He said to love your friends as HE has loved you. Now ultimately, we can't atone for any of their sins because we're not perfect; however, we can lay down our lives for them. But what does that look like exactly? Well, pushing hard to get through, for one, despite what the friend says. Second, we must bring our friend back to the Light of The Gospel, for that is the place where every heart is again made new, mended from its torn veins.
In the instance of someone you thought you could trust, and broke that trust....before you throw that friend away, you need to ask yourself several questions. What did my friend really do? Was there another thing at play? Does this friend actually care? You could probably think of a few more to answer. Another thing is that you need to be forgiving. Jesus also says to forgive others as he has forgiven you.
And if you're the person that someone is trying to reach out to, be a little bit more open. Life is precious...and if we look at ourselves again and find ourselves weak...well the only way to become stronger is to admit we're weak to others. Have you really felt Jesus' affection for you before? Have you gone on a route that shouldn't have been tread upon? If so, that doesn't matter...no mistake, no matter how far away you get, He's always chasing after you, always trying to draw your heart back to Him. And don't resist that pulling...it won't end well for you if you continue to resist. Strength is found in wise friends, in the Word too, but sometimes we can't really interpret things on our own, and we need help with it. The first step to coming clean and walking in the ways of Light is to admit that you're empty, broken, and trying to run from God. The second is to ask a wise friend questions. But first and most of all, you must realize that you can't make it on your own. I've tried that before, and to tell you the truth it never really worked. People care for you. Even if they make a mistake that seems that they really don't care for you. Remember, you always need to look outside of your own perspective. When things are only looked on from one side, that'll always lead to trouble and pain.
Think about that. BLS out.